I just want to express my appreciation to everyone that has contributed to this thread. it is music to my ears.
My bike addiction is only 18000 miles - Ducati S2R1000 - one year old. Just picked up a 2012 R12R with 3,800 miles in Florida and rode it home to Phoenix. It seems whatever these things do, I got. The fuel strip failed right away and the vibration at idle and twisting the throttle past 75 mph drove me crazy. Went into the Pensacola BMW dealer. Service manager revved the engine on the center stand and pronounced all normal for a cam head. Disparaged the fuel strip and it's uselessness but let me ride a 2013 wet head GS which was a blast.
Bike got over 6,200 miles coming into Phoenix. The scheduled maintenance showed the valves to be within spec but the TB's were way out of synch.
I now get the classic gurgle, much better low end grunt and very happy revving. My psyche is a little mangled because of worrying about it all the way home but am getting used to the idle side to side shake and training myself to enjoy the hammering that comes with twisting throttle at 5000 rpm.
I hadn't really pushed it till I got into Austin. Between Austin and home had quite a few triple digit speed runs which reduced the oil level about a quarter of a quart. Now using Amsoil synthetic and will take the advice of this thread to rack up miles with the excuse that the engine will get smoother.
One question. It is very tempting and easy to blip the up-shifts without the clutch on this bike. If there is no grinding and no missed gears, will there be any long term damage?
